My Battle with Misdirected Ambition
On Mimetic Desire, Start-ups, and the Search for Thick Desires
Below is the prologue to my book Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life.
In the summer of 2008, I experienced the moment many start-up founders live for: I learned that I would be able to cash out on my company’s success. After an intense period of courtship spanning several months, I was on my way to have celebratory drinks with the CEO of Zappos, Tony Hsieh. Zappos was going to acquire my e-commerce company for wellness products, FitFuel .com.
About an hour earlier, Tony had sent me a direct message on Twitter (his preferred form of communication at the time) asking me to meet him at the Foundation Room, a bar on the sixty-third floor of the Mandalay Bay Hotel in Las Vegas. I knew that he had attended a board meeting earlier that day and that one of the agenda items was the acquisition. He wouldn’t be inviting me to the Strip if the news was not good.
I’d been pacing around my house all day. I needed the deal to go through. Fit Fuel was burning through cash. Despite our …